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Why We Fall in Love: The Paradoxical Psychology of Romance and Why Frustration Is Necessary for Satisfaction

 https://www.brainpickings.org/2015/10/05/adam-phillips-missing-out-frustration-love/?mc_cid=d0d0fe5880&mc_eid=615205338c